Showing posts with label Patsy Clairmont. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Patsy Clairmont. Show all posts

Thursday, February 5, 2009

Calling All Cracked Pots! It's Patsy Clairmont!


Today on Words to Go, Patty chats with Patsy Clairmont about "Praying From a Surrendered Heart"
Patsy Clairmont is a wildly popular speaker with Women of Faith conferences, an opportunity that's allowed her to speak to over three million women. She has authored over seventeen books including her first fiction book Stardust on My Pillow. Her next soon-to-be-released book is entitled Catching Fireflies. She’s also written five books for kids. Through faith in Christ, she was set free from the prison of her own home as she left behind the pain of agoraphobia and embraced a life of fullness and joy. She's the funniest lady in the world, but best of all I'm so honored to call her my friend. Welcome, Patsy to Words to Go.
PATSY: Thank you, Patty, for inviting me.

“Though he was God, he did not demand and cling to his rights as God. He made himself nothing; he took the humble position of a slave and appeared in human form. And in human form he obediently humbled himself even further by dying a criminal’s death on a cross.” Phil. 2: 6-8

PATTY: Patsy, this is one of those meatier scriptures that bears some dissection, it seems. When you approach God in prayer, what does it mean to you to make one’s self nothing?

PATSY: Patty, making one’s self nothing means understanding that I am NOT God. I am NOT in control, I do NOT understand the greater plans of God, and it is ONLY because of Jesus that I am allowed to approach the throne of grace. When I have those truths securely fastened in my brain and then believe it, I am hidden behind the cross. That means my identity is in Christ and He in return represents me to the world for His purposes. Talk about a marketing plan. We are nothing and He is everything...how can we go wrong?

PATTY: Yes, but it’s taken me a long time to feel truly identified IN Christ. I misunderstood what that meant as an early Christian. Can you give us an example?

PATSY: I am a slam-dunk cracked pot. Anyone who has known me for over an hour and a half will sign an affidavit agreeing with that proclamation.

PATTY: Ha!

PATSY: Okay, okay fifteen minutes. The point is God has made space for even the most unqualified and broken among us. He understands our inherent weaknesses, our tendencies, and our wanderlust hearts. Imagine that He who is sinless and holy gets us, Little-ol’-nothing-us. Not only does He get us, Christ gives us internal dignity, external purpose, and holy poise. And His generosity doesn’t stop there. He transforms evil into good and death into hope.

PATTY: I think I’m still holding out for some of that holy poise. What a gorgeous picture of transformation, though!

PATSY: Yep, I have no trouble owning “nothing” as my title and calling, because once I relinquish my right to call the shots and bend my knobby-knees to Christ with a contrite heart, I rise up strong in Him. And HIM folks is what it’s all about.

PATTY: I’d like to ask you one more question, Patsy, if you don’t mind. It’s a temptation to treat prayer like a fire hose—only use in case of emergency. What has God or life taught you about the need for prayer as a daily occupation?

PATSY: Years ago I attended a once-a-year gathering of Bible studies from my community. It was a large group and I had not seen many of the gals since the last big gathering. One particular time I was startled by the dramatic change in a woman’s countenance I’d known before. It’s not that I had known her well, but I had observed her through the years on different occasions. She appeared to have a neurological disorder that caused her entire body to shake in tremors. So you can imagine my surprise when I saw her standing quietly, without tremors, watching the milling crowd. In my mind I wondered if the doctors had found a medication that had stilled her shaking or if they had done something surgically to help her.

PATTY: I have to admit, my mind would reach first for the logical too.

PATSY: Finally my curiosity got the best of me and I sidled up to her. “I can’t help, but notice a change in your health,” I probed. This once timid woman turned full face and smiled. I had a sense she wanted to tell me.

“Over the years,” she began, “the medications I was taking did not help my tremors, so I tried a different approach. Then I began to sit quietly in the presence of the Lord for periods of time everyday until gradually the shaking stilled.” Her eyes softened with gratitude.

I wanted to know more. I encouraged her to go on.

“At first I could only sit five minutes and then my anxiety levels would drive me off to fuss over something,” she confessed. “So off and on all day I would go back and make myself sit down again. In time I was able to stay still for longer periods. I didn’t always verbally pray, sometimes I just presented myself to the Lord, and then sat quietly. I often thought, I can’t sit here, because every nerve ending was screaming to move. But after weeks I saw that those moments were crucial to my well-being and sweet to my spirit. I was months into this discipline when others began to notice my tremors were easing. I knew I felt inwardly calmer. Eventually my tremors ceased, although if I get stressed I notice twitching, which is my cue to Be still and know that He is God.”

PATTY: That’s one of those miraculous healings that can’t be refuted. That woman found the source of her healing.

PATSY: Yes, talk about a billboard for prayer! I have never forgotten that woman. I feel like I saw the results of a miracle. It wasn’t only her lack of outward tremors, or her grateful eyes, but her new confidant spirit. She had been like a nervous sparrow and now, well, she was...a mounting eagle.

PATTY: That’s such a faith building story, Patsy. This week Neta reminded us to praise God like warriors. Thelma reminded us to pray with the mind of Christ so that we’re walking in God’s will, praying his will. Then Jan taught us to meditate on and practice the presence of God. Today, Patsy, you taught us that faithful prayers bring bountiful results. Could you leave us with a scripture?

PATSY:“...They that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength...”

PATTY: Ah! A perfect way to finish off our chat. Patsy, you know I love you so much and continue to pray for you as you minister to millions of women around the world. Thank you for chatting with us today at Words to Go.

PATSY: I loved it!

PATTY: We’d love to hear your feedback, friends, to our chat with bestselling author and communicator Patsy Clairmont! Please leave your feedback any time, all day.

Tomorrow, we have a special treat for our Mystery Guest Friday. A bestselling and beloved novelist will discuss the difficult yet blessed responsibility of praying for our kids. When will the “mystery” be revealed? See you tomorrow, on our special MYSTERY GUEST FRIDAY!

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

Ah, Sweet Surrender! Author Jan Winebrenner Chats About Prayer and Meditation


Today’s guest is Hachette/Warner Faith author and spiritual teacher Jan Winebrenner. Her favorite scripture – Matthew 11:28-30.

I met Jan Winebrenner a few years ago at a publisher’s sales conference. We exchanged books and it seemed I had made a new friend. But when I got home and read Intimate Faith, I recognized Jan as an emerging talent in Christian publishing. Her writing and depth refreshed my soul. Intimate Faith is never more than a few feet from my desk. Jan is a workshop and spiritual retreat leader who now has a new book out entitled The Grace of Catastrophe. I asked Jan here today to chat about prayer and meditation. Jan, I’m so honored to have you here today. The first thing I’d like to ask you is what is the difference between prayer and meditation?

JAN: Patty, when I’m praying, I’m pretty “Jan-focused” -- I’m thinking about what I need from God. This isn’t a bad thing—God tells us to bring Him our requests. But often, as I begin praying, I’m overwhelmed by my neediness, by my desperate condition, and the urgent needs of the people I love. I struggle often, reaching about for words to articulate what my soul feels. For me, prayer can be hard work. I feel anxiety and pressure. This is the point at which I’m learning to stop. Just stop speaking, stop trying to shape my prayer. For me, this is the time to begin practicing the discipline of meditation. This is the time to be “God-focused.” For me, this is the difference between prayer and meditation.

PATTY: Jan, this is such a great transition from the wisdom we’ve already gained this week from Neta Jackson and Thelma Wells. I like that you’re sharing how we can put feet on the discipline of taking the “me” out of prayers through this practice. I need it very badly!

JAN: Yes, as do we all. Lately, I’ve spent a lot of time meditating on the idea of God coming to me, of God initiating contact, and God inviting me to come to Him in response. He has always been the initiator, you know, and He always will be. See it in the garden: God coming to Adam and Eve, calling out to them, even when they wanted to hide from Him. He initiated the conversation. Turn a few pages in the Old Testament and see God coming to Cain, starting a dialogue. I love this! God says to this angry man, “What’s going on with you, Cain?” God knows Cain’s heart, his intentions. He tells him, “You don’t have to do this, Cain.” Even after Cain kills his brother, God doesn’t shut off the conversation.

PATTY: And that was just a whiff of the grace to come!

JAN: Right. Throughout scripture we see God coming to people; God first on the scene; God starting the conversation. Open the New Testament and see God’s ultimate Word, Jesus: the First Word—“in the beginning, the Word was with God, and the Word was God.” Jesus, God’s perfect expression of love, is the Word that communicates God’s yearning for relationship and intimacy. In every conversation with the infinite God, His is the first word.

PATTY: That eternal grace-saturated invitation.

JAN: These are the truths I’ve been meditating on for several months. When I begin to pray, when I feel the anxiety of life press in on me, or when I just want to talk to God, I stop and think. I visualize Jesus knocking, asking me to invite Him in. I am struck by the humility and gentleness of Jesus, and my heart warms toward Him. I think about Him being the one to start the conversation.

PATTY: Some call this practicing the presence of God. It causes all of the “worried prayers” to just melt away, doesn’t it?

JAN: Yes, moments before, I may have been focused on my needs and my struggles, but no more. I am overwhelmed and pulled out of myself to worship this God who wants to speak to me. I may have just arrived at this quiet place to pray, but God is already here. He arrived on the scene ahead of me and He is waiting to engage His heart with mine. He is already present. He is calling for me, waiting for me. His favorite word is “Come.” Come to where He is already present and waiting.

PATTY: It’s so true. We tend to think that we have to suck God out of some vacuum and summon him like a genie. But it’s actually us responding to his continual call to come to him. However, setting aside the time to respond to him is contrary to the way we live. We live in a hurry-sick culture. How do you deal with these outside pressures that eat away our time, Jan?

JAN: The messages carried in the winds of culture shout at us, insisting that everything depends on the self; that God is absent, or at best, distant. So we must hurry faster and work harder to attain success, to accomplish the spectacular; nothing less will suffice. Nothing in our culture encourages us to listen to God. Even our religious communities can be enemies of our souls if they spit out confusing definitions of success, pushing us toward more activity, more complicated programs. But meditation calls a halt to all the “busy-ness”; meditation pulls us into a quiet place, settles us into stillness. We remember that everything depends on God, not on the self. Our attention shifts off of our efforts and plans; our eyes look up to the sovereign, infinite, all-powerful God, and we listen as He redefines success in eternal syllables.

PATTY: Being married to the ministry, I do see so many very good ministers of the gospel buy into the “American” success story and apply it to ministry. It can be a web of deceit just like anything birthed of flesh and not God’s Spirit. My husband and I have long talks about the people we’re working to raise up so that their ministries are fruitful. But if they aren’t taking time to receive from God, only living life hurrying and worrying, we put the brakes on staff activity and head for the mountains for some “knee time”. I’m so glad you brought attention to God’s definition of “success in eternal syllables.”

JAN: When I choose to meditate on the truth about God’s heart-- that He is ready and waiting to engage with my soul—I move toward Him in response, and away from the pressures and demands of my culture. I move away from the lie that tells me my value is contained in my performance; I move toward the God who loves me and values me because I am His unique creation, His beloved child. I move away from self-directed activity, with its pressures and anxieties, and I move into God’s peace that passes understanding. Is there anything we need more in today’s world?

PATTY: When you say it like that, no, there is absolutely nothing else. When Christ becomes your greatest compulsion, you only hear one thing, don’t you?

JAN: That’s right. In meditation I hear that lovely word, “Come.” And I can hardly wait to pray.

PATTY: Ah, the sweet rapture of surrender! Jan Winebrenner, friends, chatting with us today about prayer and meditation. We would love to hear your thoughts too. How do you take time to meditate on God?

Tomorrow, calling all cracked pots! Women of Faith’s own Patsy Clairmont is dropping by to give us a word to go about how she finds time to grow through intimacy with Christ. You won’t want to miss it!

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Ask the Experts Week Countdown


February 2-6 “Ask the Experts” Week
“Women Authors on Prayer”


I was able to snag one more author girlfriend for an "Ask the Experts" week's discussion on prayer. So please make note and take note of this exciting calendar that starts next week, as we roll out the first week of February at Words to Go:

☺ Mon. Feb. 2 “Praying and Praise" We'll kick off the week by chatting with Neta Jackson author of the Yada Yada Prayer Group series. Neta especially wanted to chat about the topic "Prayer and Praise." Neta said, she'd be especially into talking about "the importance of praise and adoration as a regular part of our prayers--which is actually an important part of spiritual warfare." Each day this week, we invite bloggers to post your thoughts and comments about the myriad of values that can be drawn from a life dedicated to prayer.

☺ Tues. Feb. 3 Girl, you will Bee excited to sit in on this day when author and Christian Communicator Thelma Wells and Patty chat about “Praying God’s Will”

☺. Feb.4 Are you hungering to go deep? Then join author and popular conference and retreat leader Jan Winebrenner and Patty as they discuss “Prayer and Meditation.” Jan is a popular speaker for women's retreats and author of The Grace Of Catastrophe: When What
You know About God is All You Have.

☺ Thurs. Feb. 5 Calling All Cracked Pots!!! Yes, it’s a week of extravagant grace as Women of Faith’s Patsy Clairmont and Patty talk about “Praying From a Surrendered Heart”

☺ MYSTERY GUEST FRIDAY!! She’s a best-selling novelist and this mystery will leave you on the edge of your seat trying to figure out who she is! Drop in Friday, Feb. 6 to hear Patty and this Mystery Author discuss the most difficult responsibility in a woman’s faith journey, that of praying for our kids. Join Patty and one of today’s most popular and beloved novelists in a candid discussion just for moms.

♥ COMING FEBRUARY 9-14 “ROMANCE WEEK AT WORDS TO GO!!!”
The Pinnacles and Pitfalls of Being in Love
Veteran romance editor and author Karen Ball and I will talk about the realities of romance and marriage in real time and how romance can still sizzle out of imperfect relationships.

♥ Additionally, Marilyn Meberg, Women of Faith anchor speaker, humorist, and author of Love Me, Never Leave Me and I will discuss one of the deepest of emotions, the fear of abandonment. Marilyn says of this subject, "We crave connection with the ones we love most, and when our bond with them is broken, damaged, or threatened, we fear being left. We fear abandonment." Join Patty and Marilyn as Romance Week at Words to Go continues to soar.
♥ Husband and wife writing team Steve and Janet Bly will chat with Patty about how romance can go from crazy-wonderful to chaotic. They'll share about their romantic trip to Paris but how they then had to survive the days that followed when Steve received a shocking diagnosis.

♥ Fri. Feb. 13 MYSTERY GUEST FRIDAYS VALENTINE'S DAY SPECIAL hosts a veteran bestselling author whose stories of redemption have touched hearts the world over selling in the millions. One of her novels has never left the bestseller list to this day, nearly a decade later. Your heart will palpitate as this author and Patty discuss the Greatest Romance of All Time. Can you guess what that romance might be, Soul Sisters?

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Watch for Exciting Guests During Ask the Experts Week, Romance Week, and Upcoming Mystery Guest Fridays!


REMINDER: Don’t forget Patty will be dropping in as a featured author to Jefferson, Texas this upcoming weekend at the PULPWOOD QUEENS AUTHOR EXTRAVAGANZA!!

We all had such a great time visiting last week with author Lisa Samson. In addition to Mystery Guest Fridays, I’ll be hosting an occasional “Ask the Experts” Week. Here is the upcoming calendar, so be sure and post it to your Blackberry or Outlook calendar so that you can sit in on the fun:

February 2-6 “Ask the Experts” Week
“Women Authors on Prayer”

☺ Mon. Feb. 2 “Praying When it Seems God isn’t Listening”will kick off the week with a chance for bloggers to post your thoughts and comments about this very complicated issue.

☺ Tues. Feb. 3 Girl, you will Bee excited to sit in on this day when author and Christian Communicator Thelma Wells and Patty chat about “Praying God’s Will”

☺. Feb.4 Are you hungering to go deep? Then join author and popular conference and retreat leader Jan Winebrenner and Patty as they discuss “Prayer and Meditation.”

☺ Thurs. Feb. 5 Calling All Cracked Pots!!! Yes, it’s a week of extravagant grace as Women of Faith’s Patsy Clairmont and Patty talk about “Praying From a Surrendered Heart”

☺ MYSTERY GUEST FRIDAY!! She’s a best-selling novelist and this mystery will leave you on the edge of your seat trying to figure out who she is! Drop in Friday, Feb. 6 to hear Patty and this Mystery Author discuss the most difficult responsibility in a woman’s faith journey, that of praying for our kids. Join Patty and one of today’s most popular and beloved novelists in a candid discussion just for moms.

♥ COMING FEBRUARY 9-14 “ROMANCE WEEK AT WORDS TO GO!!!
Veteran romance editor and author Karen Ball and I will talk about the realities of romance and marriage in real time and how romance can still sizzle out of imperfect relationships.


♥ Additionally, Marilyn Meberg, Women of Faith anchor speaker, humorist, and author of Love Me, Never Leave Me and I will discuss one of the deepest of emotions, the fear of abandonment. Marilyn says of this subject, "We crave connection with the ones we love most, and when our bond with them is broken, damaged, or threatened, we fear being left. We fear abandonment." Join Patty and Marilyn as Romance Week at Words to Go continues to soar.

♥ Fri. Feb. 13 MYSTERY GUEST FRIDAYS VALENTINE'S DAY SPECIAL hosts a veteran bestselling author whose stories of redemption have touched hearts the world over selling in the millions. One of her novels has never left the bestseller list to this day, nearly a decade later. Your heart will palpitate as this author and Patty discuss the Greatest Romance of All Time. Can you guess what that romance might be, Soul Sisters?

♪ Now don’t forget Patty will be dropping in as a featured author to Jefferson, Texas this upcoming weekend at the PULPWOOD QUEENS AUTHOR EXTRAVAGANZA!!

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Patsy's Friend:Grief at Christmas


Yesterday my hubby confessed he was having a very sad day. He was missing Jessica so badly he could barely stand it. I confessed that my dark shadow of grief had, thankfully, just passed and I was beginning to feel that awesome joy that follows. We're both thankful that God helps us as a pair with the balance of support for each other. We had no sooner made our confessions to one another than our oldest son Josh called from the hospital where he works and the "sads" were creeping in on him too.


Then I received an email from my precious friend Patsy whose best friend Carol just passed away Dec. 1. Patsy has posted her YouTube video on her website and it's such a blessing I thought it would be a great way to precede my annual postings for those going through loss around the holidays. I post this with great joy that it is going to bless the socks off you whether or not you are longing for sweet reunions this holiday season.

Just go to Patsy's website, http://www.patsyclairmont.com/ and then click on the video.

And tomorrow I'll post little encouragements for those experiencing loss through the holidays.

Great joy to you all!